the Tenets

Every day a Wayist should try to do the following:

Train the Body

Weight Training, Calithenics, Cardio, and/or Flexibility for Practical Physical Prowess.

Train the Mind

Read, Study, Research, Develop, and/or Create to gain knowledge and flex the mind.

Train the Spirit

Daily Meditation to calm the waters of the mind and contemplation of the Virtues and the Way.

Martial Training

Some level of training or review of martial skills, whether it's practicing striking, grappling, armed combat, or firearms.

Skill Training

Take some time to learn more about or practice a needed skill.

Quest

Every day you should have purpose, a Quest, to keep you focused and actively moving forward.  Make progress, great or small, in the direction of this Quest.  Remind yourself of this Quest in the morning when you wake and review in the evening what progress you have made on it.

Share

Interact and Share with others your knowledge, skill, or experience.

The 3 Goods

Every day try to do at least 3 goods:

• Good for someone close to you

• Good for someone distant, or a stranger

• Good for yourself, remembering that you, too, are worthy

Definition: ‘mental or moral strength to venture, persevere and withstand danger, fear or difficulty.’

Courage, as a virtue, embodies the resolute will to face challenges, uncertainties, or threats with steadfast determination, choosing to act honorably despite fear, risk, or personal cost. It is the inner fire that drives one to stand firm in defense of truth, protect others, or pursue a noble path, balancing boldness with moral clarity to ensure actions serve a greater purpose.

Courage is the First of all Virtues.  In the face of the judgment, fear, and cruelty of the world, you will not have the resolve to pursue the other Virtues without Courage first being truly present.

Courage is not being fearless or foolhardy.  Courage is not rushing recklessly into danger or risking without knowing the consequences.  It comes from a rational understanding of the situation and what must be done, what is right.  Like all virtues, Courage can be built over time, starting with small steps by facing those things you fear and overcoming them, making it a habit and a mindset.

Courage is not in rash, unthinking action, but decisive action when appropriate.  This could mean immediately responding to a threat or crisis, or waiting until the proper time to act.  To act rashly, without logical consideration, is not Courage, but the opposite, a reaction out of Fear.

To walk the Way you must develop the Courage to stand for what is Right, what is True, and your Beliefs regardless of the pressure of others.  You must choose in your heart that you will stand for what is Right, regardless of the consequences.  This is why Truth is so important to Courage, as you must know what is True or risk championing falsehoods.

“Courage is the first of human qualities because it is the quality which guarantees the others.” - Aristotle

“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.” -Winston Churchill

“The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage.” -Thucydides 

“What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?” -Vincent Van Gogh 

“He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life." -Muhammad Ali

“Courage is first required before staring into the dark to search for Truth” -Brand

Definition: “the fact or process of doing something, typically to achieve an aim.”

Action, as a virtue, embodies the deliberate and purposeful commitment to act decisively and effectively in pursuit of honorable goals, transforming intention into tangible outcomes. It involves taking initiative, executing plans with diligence, and consistently moving forward to uphold principles, protect others, or advance noble causes, rather than remaining passive or indecisive.

“Deeds not Words” is a phrase often heard in circles of those who practice Chivalry.  It is easy to talk and plan but this comes to nothing without action, massive action.

"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy." -Dale Carnegie

"Thinking will not overcome fear, but action will." -W. Clement Stone

"Action is the foundational key to all success." -Pablo Picasso

“What is the difference between a Dreamer and a Visionary? Results.” - Brand

Definition: “the qualities of a hero or heroine; exceptional or heroic courage when facing danger.”

Valor, as a virtue, embodies the bold, heroic spirit of courageously confronting danger or adversity with exceptional bravery, particularly in defense of others or a noble cause. It reflects a fearless commitment to act with strength and honor, often in high-stakes situations, prioritizing the greater good over personal safety while maintaining integrity and purpose.

Valor is Courage manifested into reality for the world to witness.  Valor is light, it is inspiration, it is heroism shared with the world.

Valor is the echo of great deeds, it is renown, word fame.  Valor should be sought and witnessed not to serve personal vanity, but to inspire others.  

"Valor is superior to number." -Publius Flavius Vegetius Renatus

"Valor grows by daring, fear by holding back." -Publilius Syrus

Definition: ‘something that is believed, especially with strong conviction.  firm belief in something for which there is no proof’

Faith, as a virtue, embodies a steadfast trust and belief in the principles, purpose, and mission of one’s chosen path, coupled with a hopeful commitment to persevere through uncertainty or adversity. It is not limited to religious connotations but reflects a deep confidence in the values of honor, truth, and the greater good, guiding actions even when outcomes are unclear or challenges seem insurmountable.

Faith is listed here as it takes a great deal of Courage to believe in something, especially when times are hard.

Faith is the fertile soil that, even in darkness and despair, hope can grow.  But as with all virtues, Faith is a choice.  You must choose to trust your path, your instincts, your beliefs, and your fellowship. 

“To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible.” -Thomas Aquinas

“Faith consists in believing when it is beyond the power of reason to believe.” -Voltaire

“Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation.” -D. Elton Trueblood

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.” -Martin Luther King, Jr.

Definition: ‘the body of real things, events, and facts’

Truth, as a virtue, embodies the dedicated pursuit and understanding of objective reality in all situations, prioritizing the discovery of what is genuinely true through discernment, inquiry, and integrity before taking action. It involves rejecting assumptions, biases, or deception, and committing to align thoughts, words, and deeds with the authentic reality uncovered, ensuring clarity and moral grounding in every endeavor.

Truth is listed as the second Arch Virtue, as the integrity of everything a Knight does is based upon Truth.  Truth is the foundation for what a Knight does, every decision they make, and every action they take must be based on the Truth.  

Understand that there is a difference between what is true and what is Truth.  What is true is what is seen from a particular direction or perspective.  What is true can be different from different perspectives.  Truth is the sum of what actually is.

“Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is the truth.” -Mahatma Gandhi

“Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth.” -Henry David Thoreau

“The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable.” -James A. Garfield

“All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them.” -Galileo Galilei

Definition: ‘a. fairness and straightforwardness of conduct. b. adherence to the facts.’

Honesty, as a virtue, embodies the unwavering commitment to truthfulness and integrity in all interactions, expressing oneself sincerely in words, actions, and intentions without deceit or pretense. It involves being transparent, authentic, and accountable, fostering trust and moral clarity while rejecting falsehoods or manipulation, even when doing so is challenging.

“Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.” -Thomas Jefferson

“No legacy is so rich as honesty.” -William Shakespeare

“Half a truth is often a great lie.” -Benjamin Franklin

“In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act.” -Unknown

“If you do not tell the truth about yourself, you cannot tell it about other people.” -Virginia Woolf

Definition: ‘the quality or state or an instance of being loyal – unswerving in allegiance.’

Loyalty, as a virtue, embodies steadfast allegiance and unwavering devotion to individuals, communities, principles, or causes deemed worthy, prioritizing their welfare and defense through consistent commitment, even in the face of adversity or temptation. It reflects a deep sense of duty and trust, fostering bonds that endure challenges while remaining true to the values of honor and integrity.

Definition: ‘adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character’

Integrity, as a virtue, embodies the steadfast adherence to moral and ethical principles, ensuring consistency between one’s actions, words, and beliefs, even when faced with pressure or temptation. It reflects a commitment to doing what is right, maintaining honesty, and upholding honor in all circumstances, fostering trust and authenticity in every endeavor.

Definition: ‘the quality or state of being strong.  having or marked by great physical power.  having moral or intellectual power.  not mild or weak.’

Strength, as a virtue, embodies the inner and outer resilience to endure challenges, overcome obstacles, and uphold one’s principles with unwavering fortitude, encompassing both physical vitality and mental resolve. It reflects the capacity to stand firm in the face of adversity, protect others, and pursue noble goals with determination, while maintaining balance with virtues like compassion and humility to avoid domineering aggression.

Be an Island

“No one is an Island.”  But you should be.  Strive to be solid, complete, and self-sufficient.  Strive to be capable of handling any situation as best as possible.  Become a whole human being, instead of a partial one.  There is a basic level of self-sufficiency that all people should aspire to.  You should be able to take care of yourself and your basic needs, even in crisis.  Then you will be able to help others.  When you are a complete person, group with other complete people, and what can be accomplished is vastly more.

Definition: ‘Training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character.’  the quality of being able to behave and work in a controlled way which involves obeying particular rules or standards. 

Discipline, as a virtue, embodies the consistent practice of self-control, focus, and adherence to principles, routines, or commitments, enabling one to channel efforts toward honorable goals with precision and perseverance. It involves cultivating habits of restraint and dedication, ensuring actions align with values even under pressure or temptation, fostering both personal growth and reliability.

Definition: “the ability, coming from one’s knowledge, practice, aptitude, etc., to do something well.”

Prowess, as a virtue, embodies the exceptional skill, strength, and expertise demonstrated in one’s actions, particularly in challenging or demanding endeavors, reflecting a mastery honed through dedication and discipline. It encompasses not only physical or martial ability but also intellectual and moral excellence, applied with precision and effectiveness to uphold honor and achieve noble goals.

C.A.N.E.I.

Constant And Never-Ending Improvement

Constantly strive to achieve and become more.  It is through the continual pursuit of mastery that we find our better selves.

Fair Fight

Seek a fair fight in training and contests of skill.  Seek it not in peril.  For when you are assailed by peril, you will often be outnumbered, and, in the unknown, there are many dangers.  Thus, deal with your adversary quickly and efficiently while keeping your guard up against new threats.

Definition: ‘mental and emotional strength in facing difficulty, adversity, danger, or temptation courageously’

Fortitude, as a virtue, embodies the inner strength and resilience to endure adversity, confront challenges, and persevere through trials with unwavering resolve, maintaining commitment to one’s principles despite fear, pain, or prolonged hardship. It reflects a blend of courage and endurance, enabling one to face difficulties with steadfast determination while upholding honor and purpose.

Definition: ‘honesty, fairness, or integrity in one's beliefs and actions.  A code of integrity, dignity, and pride that was maintained in some societies, as in feudal Europe, by force of arms.  Good name or public esteem– one whose worth brings respect or fame.’

Honor, as a virtue, embodies the steadfast commitment to live by a code of moral integrity, upholding principles of truth, loyalty, and righteousness in all actions and relationships. It reflects a deep sense of personal and communal duty, guiding one to act with dignity, respect, and accountability, even when faced with temptation or adversity, to maintain a reputation for virtue and trustworthiness.

Definition: ‘the quality or state of being noble in character, quality or rank.’ 'the quality of elevation of mind and exaltation of character or ideals or conduct'

Nobility, as a virtue, embodies the quality of living with elevated character, marked by moral excellence, generosity, and a commitment to act with dignity and grace in service to others. It reflects an aspiration to rise above self-interest, embodying virtues like honor and compassion to inspire and uplift, fostering a legacy of principled leadership and selflessness.

Definition: “the state or fact of having a duty to deal with something or of having control over someone.”

Responsibility, as a virtue, embodies the steadfast commitment to fulfill one’s duties and obligations with accountability, ensuring actions align with moral principles and contribute to the well-being of oneself, others, and the community. It reflects a proactive acceptance of the consequences of one’s choices, prioritizing duty over convenience and upholding trust through reliable, principled conduct.

Definition: ‘contribution to the welfare of others.’

Service, as a virtue, embodies the selfless dedication to helping others through actions that prioritize their well-being, support noble causes, and strengthen community bonds, driven by a commitment to the greater good without seeking personal gain. It reflects a willingness to contribute time, effort, or resources to uplift the vulnerable, foster harmony, and advance shared ideals with humility and purpose.

Definition: ‘Moderation in action, thought, or feeling. Moderation in the indulgence of appetites or passions.’ ‘Self-balance, self-control’

Temperance, as a virtue, embodies the practice of balanced self-restraint, guiding one’s actions, emotions, and desires with moderation to maintain harmony and align with honorable principles. It reflects a deliberate choice to avoid excess, whether in indulgence, anger, or ambition, fostering clarity and wisdom in decision-making.

Definition: ‘the principle or ideal of just dealing or right action’

Justice, as a virtue, embodies the steadfast commitment to fairness, righteousness, and moral equity, ensuring actions and judgments promote balance, protect the innocent, and uphold truth without bias or vengeance. It reflects a dedication to doing what is right, addressing wrongs, and fostering harmony through principled decisions that respect the dignity of all.

Definition: ‘compassion or forbearance shown especially to an offender or to one subject to one’s power’

Mercy, as a virtue, embodies the compassionate act of showing kindness, forgiveness, or leniency toward those who are vulnerable, erring, or subject to one’s authority, choosing to alleviate suffering rather than enforce strict judgment. It reflects a balance of empathy and strength, fostering redemption and healing while upholding honor and accountability.

Definition: 'the quality of being patient, as the bearing of provocation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain, without complaint, loss of temper, irritation, or the like.'  'an ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay'

Patience, as a virtue, embodies the calm endurance of challenges, delays, or provocations, maintaining composure and focus without succumbing to frustration or impulsiveness. It reflects a steadfast willingness to persevere through difficulties, trusting in the process and prioritizing long-term purpose over immediate gratification.

Definition: “sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it.”

Compassion, as a virtue, embodies a deep empathy for others’ suffering coupled with an active desire to alleviate their distress through kind, supportive actions. It reflects a heartfelt connection to humanity, driving selfless efforts to comfort, protect, or uplift those in need while maintaining respect for their dignity.

It is Compassion that fosters heroism.

Definition: 'marked by kindness for and consideration of others.'

Courtesy, as a virtue, embodies the practice of treating others with kindness, respect, and graciousness, freely offered through polite actions and considerate behavior, regardless of circumstance or status. It reflects a commitment to fostering dignity and harmony in all interactions, distinguishing itself from earned respect by being a gift given unconditionally to uplift others.

Definition: ‘to give freely of one’s self, one’s time, or one’s possessions to aid others.’

Generosity, as a virtue, embodies the selfless act of giving one’s time, resources, or energy to support others without expectation of reward, driven by a sincere desire to uplift and empower. It reflects a willingness to share abundantly, fostering connection and well-being while prioritizing the greater good over personal gain.

In the context of the Way, generosity is of profound importance, serving as a cornerstone of chivalry that counters chaos by building resilient, interconnected communities and advancing good will. It empowers Wayists to embody honor and compassion by offering their time, skills, or resources, ensuring that the vulnerable are supported and noble causes are sustained, such as through aid to the persecuted or contributions to collective efforts. Generosity distinguishes the Way from self-serving pursuits, as it fosters trust, inspires hope, and amplifies the impact of other virtues like courtesy and compassion; without it, the path risks isolation, but with it, practitioners create a ripple effect of goodwill that strengthens humanity’s pursuit of a just and harmonious world.

Way of Hospitality

Whenever possible render shelter, food, drink and hospitality unto Order members and their charges.  Endeavor to have sufficient provisions and accommodations for expected or unexpected visitors.

Definition: 'freedom from false pride or arrogance: the quality or state of being humble.  A humble person is not proud and does not believe that they are better than other people'.

Humility, as a virtue, embodies the quality of modesty and self-awareness, characterized by a lack of pride or arrogance and a recognition of one’s limitations and equality with others. It reflects a genuine openness to learning, valuing others’ contributions, and serving without seeking personal glory, fostering authentic connections and moral grounding.

Definition: “liberation from slavery or restraint or from the power of another”

Freedom, as a virtue, embodies the state of being liberated from oppression, constraint, or undue control, enabling individuals to act, think, and live according to their own will while guided by honor and responsibility. It reflects the pursuit of self-determination and the empowerment to uphold one’s principles and contribute to the greater good, fostering an environment where all can thrive without fear or subjugation.

Definition:  ‘the action or state of keeping careful watch for possible danger or difficulties’

Vigilance, as a virtue, embodies the disciplined practice of maintaining keen awareness and alertness, proactively observing for potential dangers, opportunities, or challenges to ensure preparedness and timely action. It reflects a commitment to staying watchful, informed, and ready, balancing caution with wisdom to protect oneself and others without succumbing to paranoia.

Conflict and Emergency seldom announce their arrival beforehand.  Take the necessary steps to be able to respond at a moment’s notice at any time.  This extends to yourself, your skills, your mentality, and your equipment.  Be ready.

Definition: ‘means or method of defending or protecting oneself, one’s team, or another.’

Defense, as a virtue, embodies the proactive commitment to protect oneself, loved ones, the innocent, and noble causes from harm, injustice, or chaos, using both physical and moral strength to ensure safety and uphold principles. It reflects a balanced approach to safeguarding, combining vigilance, skill, and compassion to preserve dignity and foster security without aggression.

Way of Sanctuary: The Way of Sanctuary, a vital sub-aspect of the virtue of Defense within the chivalric path of the Order of Avalon.  It calls upon Wayists to provide shelter and protection for themselves, their charges, and the innocent who are wrongly persecuted, creating safe, secure, and fortified environments that serve as bastions against chaos and injustice. This entails not only physical fortification, like secure homes, emergency shelters, or safe havens, but also emotional and ideological safeguards, where practitioners offer refuge through wisdom, resources, and steadfast support to shield the vulnerable from harm, oppression, or undue persecution. 

Its importance lies in upholding the core mission of chivalry to defend humanity and foster enlightenment, as without such sanctuaries, individuals and communities risk fragmentation, despair, and erosion of purpose in an unpredictable world; by embodying this way, Wayists ensure resilience, empower the persecuted to rebuild and thrive, and prevent the triumph of chaos, transforming defense from mere reaction into a proactive force for hope, unity, and long-term societal harmony.

Definition: “to surrender or give up, or permit injury or disadvantage to, for the sake of something else.”

Sacrifice, as a virtue, entails the willingness to surrender or give up something of value, or to permit injury or disadvantage, for the sake of a greater good or higher purpose. It reflects a deliberate choice to prioritize collective well-being, honor, or long-term enlightenment over immediate personal gain, emphasizing that true sacrifice is purposeful and measured—not a wasteful loss, reckless self-endangerment, or needless suffering, but a strategic act that builds resilience, fosters growth, and ultimately yields greater rewards for oneself and others.

Definition: 'to bring light. providing or tending to provide knowledge, understanding, or insight.  freed from ignorance or misinformation.  the state of understanding.'

Enlightenment, as a virtue, embodies the pursuit and sharing of profound understanding, wisdom, and insight, illuminating paths of truth and purpose for oneself and others. It reflects a commitment to dispel ignorance, foster hope, and empower through knowledge, creating a ripple effect of clarity and growth that uplifts humanity.

Definition: ‘someone's ability to notice and understand things that are not obvious to other people the ability.  the act or faculty of perceiving, or apprehending by means of the senses or of the mind; cognition; understanding.’

Perception, as a virtue, embodies the keen ability to discern and understand the true nature of situations, people, or events through insightful observation and critical analysis, cutting through illusions or biases to grasp objective reality.  It focuses on generating a true understanding of what truly is versus what is simply presented, enabling one to pierce through illusions, biases, deceptions, and superficial facades to uncover underlying truths and realities. This virtue cultivates keen observation, intuitive insight, and critical discernment, transforming raw sensory input and mental processing into reliable, actionable awareness.

“There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors of perception.” -Aldous Huxley

“Comprehension follows perception.” -Philip K. Dick

“What you see is not what others see. We inhabit parallel worlds of perception, bounded by our interests and experience. What is obvious to some is invisible to others.” -George Monbiot

Perception is the view, the perspective, the collective observations of an idea, event, or situation generated by all the senses and the mind.  You must learn to separate all of the noise from the signal itself.  

You must also learn to adjust your perception to not only view from only one particular angle, but from many angles, to try and discern the truth.

Definition: “facts, information, and skills acquired by a person through experience or education; the theoretical or practical understanding of a subject.”

Knowledge, as a virtue, represents the active pursuit, acquisition, and sharing of information, skills, and understanding across various domains of life. It goes beyond passive learning to encompass curiosity, critical thinking, and the ethical use of information to foster growth and truth. This virtue promotes continuous education, openness to new ideas, and the rejection of ignorance, serving as the foundation for informed actions and meaningful contributions to society.

Wisdom

Definition: “the quality or state of being wise; knowledge of what is true or right coupled with just judgment as to action; sagacity, discernment, or insight.”

Wisdom, as a virtue, embodies the thoughtful application of knowledge, experience, and discernment to guide actions and decisions toward what is truly good and just. It is not mere intelligence or accumulated facts but a profound understanding that balances intellect with moral insight, enabling one to foresee consequences, resolve conflicts honorably, and pursue enlightenment amid life's uncertainties. This virtue encourages humility in learning, restraint in judgment, and a commitment to truth, distinguishing it from rashness or ignorance.

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” -Aristotle

“The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.” -Socrates

"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest." -Confucius